Cindy,
Sorry about the diagnosis but glad you found us. Where are you and who's doing your surgery?
I had T2 High grade also and had my surgery almost two years ago now. Which surgery are you getting?
There are many of us here who have had the surgery, both men and women so ask any and all questions.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...