Andy,
So glad that you went to UM!!!!!
Sorry to hear of the situation but it sure is better knowing the true situation and the right answer!
Be sure to circle back to your original uro so she knows not to say that part about "surprised even considering RC" to other patients. She should refer them to UM!
Hopefully, others who read this will realize that we're not trying to be pains in the butt when we HIGHLY recommend getting to a major bladder cancer!
This very well could be the decision that saved your life!
Keep us informed and ask any all questions. There is a lot of information here about the diversions, the surgery, and recovery. You might want to browse through that for a while.
We are here for you Andy!
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...