Pat,
You were the one person that helped me figure out my hypercontinence issue years ago, back when I was logged in as "n3qtrtme". Thank you so much for making me feel normal when I clearly wasn't ever really "normal". I even got them to try some stuff you recommended and they hadn't thought of yet.
It was shocking and sad to see this thread when I logged in again tonight after a long absence. You have been in my thoughts numerous times in the past 2 years and will continue to be. I don't much about breast cancer but am currently unemployed and have lots of time to do any kind of research necessary, or anything else that may help. A lot of stuff is rolling through your head right now and I want to emphasize to you that you are important to a lot of people... people you may not ever even know about. We all care about you and knowing this community and their breadth of experiences, would do anything to make this better for you. I am sending my prayers and good karma and whatever else may help. I'd even come do your laundry, clean your toilets and cook you casseroles if the commute wasn't so far. (Sorry, TX unemployment sucks) I know I speak for all of us... if there is anything we can do, you just say so.
You have been here for all of us... time for us to pay you back.
I'll be thinking about you.
Christine