It is not reasonable to ask you not to be scared because it is a very confusing time for your family. But, as someone who is fairly new (Dec 08)as well,and still learning the ropes, I can assure you that this part of it is not that bad. BCG reacts differently in different people. I have had 6 so far with varying degrees of reaction. Jack has had 30.I have returned to work directly after treatment, gone shopping, and last time actually fell asleep with the darn stuff still in me.(Not reccomended!) My experience to date has been either no side effects or some burning, bleeding, and debris. That may sound scary in itself but it usually only lasts about 12 hours. A few tylenol helps alot as well as drinking alot of water and vegging out on the couch for a while. I take my treatments on friday afternoon so I don't have to worry about work and can laze around like a goddess all weekend if I want! lol
Your son, on the other hand, may have very little reaction and breeze right through it. Everyone is different.Do I look forward to another round? NO! But if it keeps the cancer away then bring it on! Hope this helps. Hey,I know that if I can do it - anyone can!
Take care