You don't know how glad I am to read your message about your dad!!!
Of course, it likely doesn't compare to how glad YOU were when he told you he changed his position.
Facing this thing head on and dealing with it is WAY better than just letting it take you out without doing anything. It is not a pretty way to die.
If your dad would like to talk to me on the phone, I'm sure we could figure something out. Maybe you can send a note through the "contact us" section and they can give me his number or your email and you and I can set something up offline. If he wants to email me privately, I'm open to that as well.
We don't want to post phone numbers or email on this forum because people troll these areas looking for people to spam and scam. He has to be worried at this point and I'm guessing it is NOT too late. I'm not a doctor but I'm guessing he's just recently had his recurrence and that it is time to do something about it.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...