How not to say the wrong thing...

10 years 11 months ago #44539 by Rockyiss
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Thanks Mike I enjoyed reading this. Sometimes in life we are all going to stick our big foot in our mouth and usually we don't notice until we fall down cause our foot is in our mouth instead of on the ground where it belongs . God grant us the wisdom to keep BOTH feet on the ground and the grace for when we don't to say I am sorry. Rocky
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10 years 11 months ago #44532 by seabreeze
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Mike, thank you for all your support you provide to all of us. Praying for you!!!

Love and HUGS,

John & Carolyn

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10 years 11 months ago #44529 by GKLINE
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Seems Simple enough.
But "Dumping In" is sometimes confusing for the socially selfish. They mean no harm, they view their honest opinion, as a comment that needs to be spoken.

IT"S ALL ABOUT ME!!!!!!!! For God's sake!


Mike
You are a great influence on all of us here. Always positive and your eyes are ALWAYS focused on the Prize!
If I ever say the wrong thing, it is because my brain was in neutral and my lips were moving because the driver was asleep.

Since you are in the center circle, I say to you:
"You look Great! And, from the tone of your posts....... You sound Great!

In the words of Billy Crystal

You Look MAAAAAVELOUS BABY!


George

Light a man a fire and he is warm for an evening.
Light a man ON fire and he's warm forever.

08/08/08...RC neo bladder
09/09/09...New Hip
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New Man! [/size]

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10 years 11 months ago #44521 by Flamenco.
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Very well put and simple enough for Everyone to follow.

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10 years 11 months ago #44516 by CatherineH
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I truly believe you can find a flowchart for everything, even it it is a round one! :)

It is a great perspective and sound advice. I love the "Comfort In" and "Dump Out" flow of what to say and who to say it to. Thanks for sharing the link!

Best wishes... Catherine

TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
Vanderbilt Medical Center
Nashville, TN

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10 years 11 months ago - 10 years 11 months ago #44507 by mmc
This is really worth a read and worth sharing with others!

People often mean well but....
www.latimes.com/news/opinion/commentary/la-oe-0407-silk-ring-theory-20130407,0,2074046.story


Mike

Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...
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