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My step daughter in law

7 years 4 months ago - 7 years 4 months ago #42060 by danielle
We are all saddened (and frightened)when someone we are close to dies, its a natural thing to feel that way. If its a young person then that sadness is even greater.

You must realize Doc, that you are no different than most of us here. We are all frightened, some of us show it more, some of us manage to put on a brave face and hide our fears.

Reading posts of other sufferers, we must realize that we are not alone and all of us face the possibility of death, but happily,on the other side, we all face the positive hope of fighting and winning the fight of BC, which is more than likely with today's medical treatments. Many posters have put the disease behind them and their life gets on track again.

If we go through life worrying and dwelling about what might be, we won't have time to live the moment with peace of mind and make others around us happy. I know dear friend what you must be going through and my heart felt thoughts are with you and your family.
You know you will say, what does Danielle know what I am suffering. I know Doc, and its for that reason I have answered your post.
I am sorry for your loss and I pray you will get a little strength from our posts.

Cyber hugs, Danielle

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7 years 4 months ago #42042 by DougG
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife, Doc.

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7 years 4 months ago #42041 by mmc
I sure hope things turn around soon! You sure have had your share.

The longer we live, the more we know who die.
The only alternative to that I know is dying before they do and that's not such a great option either.

You need some rainbows and piñatas and chocolate cake and a nice single malt and other nice stuff!!!

That damn rain cloud has been following you around for too darn long!

Wish I knew how to cheer you up (but I don't) so all I can do is wish you the best (or at least better),

Mike

Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...

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7 years 4 months ago #42033 by upnorth
Doc,

I'm sorry to hear about you'r loss. You have had a tough time of it lately. I hope you find some comfort in knowing that you are proof that you can fight this disease.

I hope you are doing okay. Hang in there pal.

Mark

Age 55
Diagnosed BC 12/20/2011 Ta No Mo 0a Non-Invasive At age 48
"Please don't cry because it is over..... Smile because it happened!" {Dr. Seuss} :)

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7 years 4 months ago #42032 by sara.anne
Gary, i am so sorry for your, and your family's, loss. It IS hard to take.

Sara Anne

Diagnosis 2-08 Small papillary TCC; CIS
BCG; BCG maintenance
Vice-President, American Bladder Cancer Society
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7 years 4 months ago - 7 years 4 months ago #42030 by dieseldoc
My wife's daughter in law lost her battle with cancer. She died last Saturday.
I am getting tired of people dying all around me. I keep fighting my depression, and this isn't helping any. :( :( :(

T1,NO,MO battling bladder cancer since 2005

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