Hello!
Good to meet you, and thanks for the response. I wasn't sure my post was actually "out there" since I could not see it anywhere as of yesterday.
You mentioned the mucus--that amount varies. More right at first in the morning and then later in the evening when I cut back on fluids. In between, though, not a lot.
Surgeon was Richard Foster. He's absolutely excellent, and the surgery and post-op stay went extremely well. But like you, I get conflicting advice between the surgeon and the nurses. Nurses say drink that 64 plus per day--surgeon says drink what you usually drink. Nurses say irrigate more than once a day if you drink less than 64; surgeon says irrigate once a day only. Nurses say work hard and reposition to make sure pouch is drained each time. Surgeon says it's not that large a concern and that it is permissible to use gentle abdominal pressure and/or bearing down to help fully empty, as well as to aid in dislodging/pushing through any mucus that might semi-clog that catheter tip.
So of course I've tried all these things. I'm very fortunate that except for 4 hours a week, I work exclusively at home. That has been a huge blessing. BUT--when I'm out and about, or at work, or working out, or standing in front of people and running a meeting--the leakage is an issue of concern. At this point, I would not dream of leaving the house without using some sort of appliance so that if and when that leak comes, it's contained. I really don't have a lot of restroom time when I work on site--emptying fully is usually a slow 12-15 minute process with around 300 cc per. And it's not like I leak tons--but it is enough that it comes quickly and therefore soaks through any standard "dressing" that I've found; hence the "Little Ones" urostomy bag.
I've read about fistulas and hope that is not an issue, but I just had my first routine post-op CT last week, so we'll see how that turns out.
I suppose most of this may be just venting. If I could find some dressing method that would contain the leaks, I'd stop with the flange/bag routine in a heartbeat. At the moment, though, it seem the only thing I can do unless there is something else out there that more experienced post-op people know about.
Thanks for taking the time to read and respond.