• Posted by CatherineH on February 10, 2014 at 4:22 pm

    Hello and welcome, Joel. As you have astutely observed, you are among others who have walked this path ahead of you. Let your wife know that bc is treatable. It is important that she go with you so you can double-team the doctor and get as much info as you can.

    It is a good thing that you have educated yourself about your diagnosis, and I am sorry you are not getting what you need from your doctor. You mentioned that your options are ‘limited’, but are there other uro’s that you could see for a second opinion? We highly recommend getting a second from a hospital that specialized in BC. Sadly, reports have indicated that not all uro’s are experts in bc, however, your uro has taken the right approach in getting you started on BCG right away.

    Make a list of any questions either of you have and write them down. High grade bc can become aggressive, even if it is T1, which is why close monitoring is so important. See how you feel about your doctor after this next visit. If you’re still not comfortable that your needs are being met, find someone else. You will be in a long term relationship with your bc doctor, so it needs to be a good match.

    Let us know how it goes…


    Best wishes… Catherine

    TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
    Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
    Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
    Vanderbilt Medical Center
    Nashville, TN

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    DougG

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    March 4, 2014 at 1:01 am

    Cpratt,

    Glad you were able to get your surgery scheduled quickly and that your doctor thinks that is caught early. You are young to have bladder cancer. I want to commend you for getting in to a urologist when you saw blood in your urine. That was very wise. You will be in my prayers for Wed. Did your doctor indicate whether or not you will need a catheter? Depending on the location of the tumours, sometimes a catheter is needed.

    Best wishes,
    Anita


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    dieseldoc

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    March 3, 2014 at 5:46 pm

    QUASAR, I don’t think you offended anyone, I was not offended. You have the right to your opinion.


    T1,NO,MO battling bladder cancer since 2005
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    Cpratt0816

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    February 28, 2014 at 12:54 pm

    Hello Everyone,

    I found out yesterday I have a tumor in my bladder. The Urologist believes it was caught early. My only symptom was the blood in the urine. I am 25 years old. I know this is a very rare cancer in young people, but I guess no one is immune right? Anyway, I am having surgery on Wednesday followed by mitomycin. Any information will be helpful.

    Thanks!

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    gkline

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    February 13, 2014 at 6:33 pm

    Since I am not a Dr. and I need a simple progression:

    first Dr. visit.
    Scope into the bladder…. Look at the TV monitor and see the cancer…. Yuck!
    Schedule first TURB

    First TURB
    They remove the cancer and take out any cancer they can. Send out the cancer to the lab for pathology. read pathology report and proceed.

    Second TURB
    Again they go into the bladder and remove a layer of tissues where they removed the cancer. Send this to pathology and see of the margins are clear of any cancer cells.
    If they are clear……. Go to BCG treatments.
    If cancer cells still present…….Go to Bladder Removal.

    I know it is simplistic and many things can go differently. But this is always the protocol to follow. And AGGRESSIVELY follow it. And if not…… Get another Dr.

    George


    Light a man a fire and he is warm for an evening.
    Light a man ON fire and he’s warm forever.

    08/08/08…RC neo bladder
    09/09/09…New Hip
    =
    New Man! [/size]

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    dieseldoc

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    February 13, 2014 at 12:35 am

    I don’t know about everyone else, but I don’t just take any old doctor that comes along, I want a doctor that is not uncomfortable with talking with their patients.
    As a new cancer patient you better take the time to judge, because the doctor that you have might not be the right doctor for you. Some uro’s don’t know a thing about bladder cancer, and some are well versed in it and the treatment of it.

    JOEL, which doc do you want. One that is going to rely on NED or a doc that is going to control NED. Because (NED) sometimes jumps ship.
    The friends you have sometimes don’t know how to handle the CANCER word. most of them are not running from you, they are running from that. Some will come back, some will not, you don’t need to worry about them.

    Quasar, If it never comes back on you then you are a very lucky man. But please don’t count your chickens…….. I REALLY hope it dose not.


    T1,NO,MO battling bladder cancer since 2005
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    Quasar

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    February 12, 2014 at 9:44 pm

    Since my message seemed to offend. I have removed it.


    TURBT 7/3/13 at age 60
    CIS carcinoma in situ
    Ta papillary 2 cm
    BCG 7/25/13-8/29/13
    maintenance BCG 6/14
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    Alan

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    February 12, 2014 at 8:14 pm

    Joel, thanks for your service. As others have said a second opinion is often warranted and a second TURB is often done to be sure “margins” were correct for the path report. You will know more after the final round of BCG and another cystoscope.


    DX 5/6/2008 TAG3 papillary tumor .5 CM in size. 2 TURBS followed by 6 instillations of BCG weekly with a second round of 6 after a 6 week wait.
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    dieseldoc

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    February 11, 2014 at 8:36 pm

    Joel, I’m sorry, but what the hell kind of doctor can’t read a path. report! You need to find another Uro That will take Tricare. I know it will be hard because Tricare Is the govn. an they don’t pay much. I worked for the govn. and in my opinion, if there hands are in it, it is bound to be messed up. If your uro won’t talk to you and tell you what’s going on or what the plan is that is not good. You don’t want to mess around with high grade cancer to long. Where are you? I live right by an army base (Ft. Leonard Wood) and we have a real good uro that takes Tricare.


    T1,NO,MO battling bladder cancer since 2005
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    rbmc

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    February 10, 2014 at 10:42 pm

    The wife should have anxiety and fear, if you’re not communicating with the doctor to discuss your specific condition. Not medical answers, but you’re in the right place here to talk with ‘been there – done that’ people. And sorry the insurance gives you limited avenues to pursue. Talk of a 2nd opinion could be another uro, or, a specialist. Specialists may not be near you, creating a travel problem. Military was mentioned ……… VA options? Again, maybe a distance problem due to the frequent visits needed. I did NOT like my first uro, pulled out for another, and things improved. Better care, and far better communication. Don’t be afraid to make a change, it’s you taking charge to protect your life now. As someone once said, you and wife will form a team on this new battleground. Feel free to stop back often and talk to the group.

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    sara.anne

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    February 10, 2014 at 5:12 pm

    Welcome to a club you didn’t want to join!! I am sorry to hear that your uro’s office disparages Tricare…great way to say “Thank you for your service,” isn’t it! My internist complains, loudly, about most insurances, so you are not alone. I am also covered by Tricare, but it is now a supplement to my Medicare and I am free to chose my own doctors.

    As for your treatment plan, I suspect that your uro sent you straight to BCG since the path report indicated high grade. There was no point in waiting, and the sooner the better. Many urologists do a second TURBT about 4-6 weeks after the first to be sure of the diagnosis, and before starting any treatment. I was a good example….my first TURBT showed low grade, with some areas of “irritation” and the pathologist was uncertain. So we did it again since the doc now knew where to look. The second TURBT showed a high grade (CIS) and I was headed to BCG. Since your doc found high grade at the first pass, he was probably correct in recommending BCG asap. It sounds as if your treatment is “right on” for now.

    Your primary problem is probably urologist personality! As Catherine indicated, it is a good idea to take notes and PLEASE be persistent in asking your questions. You are your own best advocate. AND I would not be bashful about explaining to staff exactly what Tricare stand for!!!

    Best of luck to you…

    Sara Anne


    Diagnosis 2-08 Small papillary TCC; CIS
    BCG; BCG maintenance
    Vice-President, American Bladder Cancer Society
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