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How to decide if I should get a neobladder?
I was recently diagnosed with bladder cancer, the cystoscopy showed multiple high-grade tumors, and I am scheduled to have my bladder removed in a couple of weeks. This has been an emotional roller coaster for me and now I have to decide what type of bladder I should have.
My best options seem to be a continent pouch with stoma OR a neobladder that is connected to my urethra. I have to decide quickly and have, thus far, not found research that compares the quality of life of these two options.
I am terrified of being incontinent and not certain I can deal with putting a catheter up my urethra. I am being steered towards an orthotopic neobladder because it most approximates a “normal” function. However, I am hearing about incontinence and having to use a catheter.
I am a 52 year old active, married woman with no other health issues. My urethra and bladder neck appear to be in good shape. So far, no evidence has been found that the cancer has spread outside my bladder but they will not know for sure until the pathology report after my cystectomy. Until a month ago, I probably would have never used the word “bladder” in a sentence. :)
Please, can anyone help me find information, share experiences, or point me in the right direction to find research on the success rates of “normal” urination with a neobladder. For example:
– How likely am I to experience incontinence at night?
– Would I always have to travel with incontinence products?
– How often am I likely to have to use a catheter?
– Would it harder to use a catheter on my urethra or on a stoma?What else should I consider when making this quality-of-life decision for myself?
Thank you so much,
Jeanne