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  • confused, not knowing how to proceed

    Posted by MikeP on June 14, 2013 at 4:04 pm

    58 yo male, doc just discovered a mass in my kidney ,he is sure it cancer due to fish test markers.
    he want to remove the whole kidney,tube and cuff of bladder next Monday.
    waiting on tests to have in Staged??
    been seeing him for intermittent gross hematuria for a couple years
    4 ct scans, 4 systomscope, cytogly and fish test.. all negative
    last week all positive and 2 cm mass in tube in kidney
    I do knot know how to proceed
    would you go get a 2nd opinion? perhaps with an ocologist
    do you know sites o that helpful??
    normally in the family im the consultant, level headed … cant think straight and done want to frighten my wife and adult children

    CatherineH replied 11 years, 8 months ago 4 Members · 9 Replies
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    catherineh

    Member
    July 6, 2013 at 1:58 pm

    Hello Mike… Congratulations on getting through a tough “kidney taker outer” surgery with very good reports. You have gone from “confused… not knowing how to proceed” to “been there, done that!”

    I am so happy we were able to ease the waiting period a bit for you, but you did all the heavy lifting! You did your homework, got that second opinion, and did what you needed to do. Bravo to YOU!

    Now you can enjoy the rest of your summer! B)


    Best wishes… Catherine

    TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
    Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
    Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
    Vanderbilt Medical Center
    Nashville, TN

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    MikeP

    Member
    July 6, 2013 at 10:18 am

    Hello and greetings from TampaBay Fl
    I like to thank you for your posts, replies and most important your advise.
    I did in fact go to H L Moffit ( a NCI rated hospital ) , armed with every report, cd of cat scans and results of fish tests
    Waited till I was seen within the urology dept , the place was quite analyzing , my tests results were takin, digested and I met with a surgeon who had consulted with a oncologist
    Bottom line was that they agreed with the plan my doc had mapped out. With the only suggestion being the resulting bone scans and cats if came up clean go ahead if not pursue chemo first
    Well all scans showed up negative, nodes were the same sizes for three scans
    So on 24th I had a radical ( kidney taker outer , tube and cuff of bladder) my words not theirs
    Just getting back on my feet and all pathology is great as it was stage one , self contained and nothing in nodes

    So thank you all who grounded me at a time when I needed it ,
    Thank you

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    nix

    Member
    June 18, 2013 at 10:24 pm

    Mike,
    I also live in the Tampa area, and I go to Moffitt for my care with Bladder Cancer. My doctor is Dr Sexton, and being fives years out I am very pleased with him. I really don’t know if he is also kidney.
    There is also a MD Anderson in Orlando and I know they have uros there. It isn’t real large but you could find info on Google.
    Good luck,

    Nancy


    Nancy S
    Ta CIS
    dx Ta 11/06
    dx Ta CIS 10/07
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    MikeP

    Member
    June 18, 2013 at 12:20 pm

    Thank you all for your suggestions ( pardon my spelling) .
    I did seek out another opinion , I went to Moffitt Cancer center here , an NCI rated hospital. Spent the day collecting all my records and met with the head of their GU dept.
    He agreed with the trac I am on.. there might be a benefit to do a Biopsy before surgery but only slight and because when it is located taking samples for pathology is probably not a good Idea
    so the rest of this week is bone scans, lung ct for staging and op on Monday am
    again thank you for your help

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    sara.anne

    Member
    June 15, 2013 at 5:46 pm

    Mike, I am not personally familiar with Moffit, but I did a thorough check of their web site. It appears that they have several urologists who specialize in kidney/bladder cancers. The one thing you want to be careful of in choosing a urologist is to get one who DOES specialize in this area. Many urologist see mostly prostate cancer patients and do not have the experience you might need.

    When your current urologist said that he has done “hundreds of the same operation” is he talking about the combination of kidney and bladder? Does he always chose to do them laporascopically? (Sometimes this is a great idea and sometimes it isn’t…depends on the situation…and a good urological surgeon knows the difference!)

    It would certainly be worth a consultation there, particularly since it is in your back yard!!

    Sara Anne


    Diagnosis 2-08 Small papillary TCC; CIS
    BCG; BCG maintenance
    Vice-President, American Bladder Cancer Society
    Forum Moderator
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    catherineh

    Member
    June 15, 2013 at 1:33 pm

    Good morning, Mike… I don’t have any info on Moffit personally, but Sara Anne probably does. I’m not sure if you can travel a bit, but Mayo in Jacksonville might be an option to consider as well. I ended up having surgery 300 miles away to get to the best care available.

    I’m sure your doctor is competent in what he does, however, renal/bladder cancers are very specialized fields and seeing a urologist/oncologist is what I would highly recommend. Another thing I would want a second opinion on is whether laparoscopically is the best way to go for you. Everyone’s case is unique and you want what will give you the best possible outcome. Also, confirm that some lymph nodes will be removed to get a more complete pathology.

    The larger hospitals also have online information about their urology staff and sometimes you can request an appointment that way. Your plan to just go there to talk to the appointment people can’t hurt either.


    Best wishes… Catherine

    TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
    Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
    Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
    Vanderbilt Medical Center
    Nashville, TN

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    MikeP

    Member
    June 15, 2013 at 11:44 am

    thank you for your reply
    I cant believe that I didn’t even list what state, let alone city I live in.
    I live in the Tampa bay area of Florida.
    I understand that there is a pretty good hospital , H>L. Moffitt
    which I tried to contact yesterday, and left maessages to the urology dept .my urologist did confirm that he has he done hundreds of the same operation and has taught how to do them laparoscopy ( sp), and often urologist are oncologist , he is not his specialty is surgery …
    anyway im hoping Moffitt will call.. or perhaps I go and sit there Monday morning.. to get someone attention.. in the department
    if anyone does know any doc there it would help
    again… thanks to the two who responded

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    catherineh

    Member
    June 15, 2013 at 4:12 am

    Hello and welcome to the forum, Mike. Talk about a roller coaster ride in a whirlwind, getting news like that and so little time to think would put anyone into a panic.

    First, I definitely concur with Sara Anne to seek out a second opinion hopefully at a major hospital that specializes in kidney/bladder cancer. I know time is of utmost importance when dealing with any cancer, but it seems to be rushed that your doctor has already planned out a surgery while still waiting on your complete test reports. Maybe he is very familiar with your case having treated you for this long, but even if you are already at a large hospital, unless they are on the list of top 10, I would still seek that second opinion. I think that applies to any major illness.

    As far as seeing an oncologist, many bladder/kidney cancer specialists and surgeons are urological oncologists, and your doctor may be as well. If not, then definitely get that second opinion by someone who is. (I was treated at Vanderbilt in Nashville and most of their urology faculty are.) Since your tumor is between the kidney and bladder, I would want a second doctor to confirm that taking the kindey and a portion of the bladder is the best option. The experience of your doctor is very important to getting the best outcome.

    It’s tough being the family problem solver and being hit with something like this that knocks you for a loop. I know you don’t want to frighten your family, but they will be your core support team along with your doctor. As soon as you can wrap your head around all this, I suggest you bring them into the discussion. It is a scary situation for all of you, but it is less scary when you have each other to lean on.

    Please post any other questions as they pop into your head. There are so many things to think about when you first get that diagnosis. Many of us here have been right where you are and we’re still here posting in this forum because we understand the fear and uncertainty. You will get through this!


    Best wishes… Catherine

    TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
    Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
    Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
    Vanderbilt Medical Center
    Nashville, TN

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    sara.anne

    Member
    June 14, 2013 at 5:04 pm

    Mike, so sorry to hear your dilemma. You really do need a second opinion/analysis
    if only to reassure you that you are doing the best you can with this. Where are you located and where are you being seen? When we know that it might be easier to recommend places close to you geographically.

    Nationally, Memorial Sloan Kettering in NYC, Johns Hopkins in Baltimore, Univ. of Chicago, M.D.Anderson in Houstin, and USC in LA are among some of the best. There are a number of others and we might know of one near you.

    Sara Anne


    Diagnosis 2-08 Small papillary TCC; CIS
    BCG; BCG maintenance
    Vice-President, American Bladder Cancer Society
    Forum Moderator

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