Alice,
I agree that we seem to have mirrored symptoms. Maybe one or the other of us will get to the bottom of this.
Yesterday, I had to urinate at least 15 times before noon. I don't know what sets this off, but, I noticed that I had the bad pain in my left side and rectum all day. I know you have that pain on the left side, too.
I did ask my OB if a hysterectomy would help that pain in the side, and he said he couldn't guarantee it. He also said that if I have a hysterectomy, he would have to have my Urologist to assist because he has to peel one of the organs away from the bladder. Maybe this other organ is causing pressure to the bladder and causing irritability? All we can do is guess.
Do you ever get the idea that the docs just don't know what to make of our complaints?
They just don't know, and then you get bladder cancer on top of what they don't know and the TURB's don't fix it, so then, you can get really worried.
I've often wondered if it's endometriosis. Endometriosis can attach itself to the bladder. However, endo is supposed to stop after menopause, so, there goes that theory!
Glad you are here to understand. I'm glad I'm not the lone warrior.
Your friend,
Rosemary