Why was your bladder removed so quickly if you don't mind me asking.
I was diagnosed with invasive BC, grade 4, and my local urologist referred me to Dr. Stein at USC/Norris, who rearranged his surgery schedule (moved some prostate cancer cases--which progress relatively slowly) so they could take me as soon as possible. My bladder definitely had to come out based on the diagnosis, and it made sense because there was no good reason for waiting. There was no vitamin or tea or crystal that was going to make what I had go away, and waiting would only increase the chance of spreading. As it turns out, because I ignored the symptoms so long, it had already spread. As Kurt Vonnegut would say, "So it goes".
My surgery was a year-ago yesterday.
I made a real point of writing my questions in advance and bringing them to my appointments, since I can get distracted easily by the flow of conversation and I didn't want to forget to ask what I felt was important. That really helped a lot, since I had time to compose my thoughts and concerns.
My next visit is August 8th for my one-year follow-up, and I already have some questions written down.
I'm glad you're switching, and I hope your new urologist is someone who can really answer your questions and give you confidence in your situation.
Thank you Zach for the information. I guess it was about what I was expecting. I am seeing a new URO July 18th. I am already showing blood in the urine. I really can't wait to see the new one because I was not comfortable with my other one at all. I am hoping this one will please me.
I am 45. Why was your bladder removed so quickly if you don't mind me asking.
Absolutely it depends on the grade and stage and location of your cancer. And your age, your health, and other facets of your condition.
What does your doctor tell you when you ask him?
...how long a person....
There really is no such person as "a person". You situation is unique and depends on many factors that only someone treating you can answer properly. If your own doctor isn't forthcoming or doesn't communicate well, you might want to ask for a second opinion or change doctors. The bottom line, though, is that it's up to each of us to make sure that our questions are answered. We might not like the answer itself, but if the doctor doesn't come right out and tell us what we want to know without being asked, it's up to us to ask the specific questions we want answers to.
(In my case, my bladder was removed within weeks of diagnosis. Some of the folks here might never have their bladder taken out.)