Dear Dida,
Your post is more than approriate. It is in these first stages of diagnosis of Superficial BC where we need the most help and support.
This is the BIG HURDLE, right NOW.
It is definitely a scary time and possibly you already know that your life is going to be changed forever. And, it's true, it will be changed. But, I'm assuming since your treatment is Mitomycin, then the Dr's are telling you that your Superficial BC is TREATABLE.
I've not talked much here about my personal deep funk after BC diagnosis. Those days in January 2006 were dark and the clouds were fast gathering around me. It seemed like every minute was hard. The funniest and oddest thing happened to bring me out of this mood. My brother called to chat and my Mother was telling him that I was sinking deep into my depressive feelings and he said to her, "Tell her to suck it up. She'll be allright."
This sounds like a harsh and uncompassionate remark, though it was very characteristic of him to say it. But somehow, it was just what I needed at that exact moment in time.
And when I heard those words, the very clouds seem to dissipate around my head, and the sun seemed to shine through. It was a very odd and poignant moment for me.
This is not what I am saying to you, but only my experience as I went through what your are going through now.
This phase will pass and going to work and going through the motions will help a lot right now. Work can sometimes save us.
We've lived through this and you will too. Also, we are here to help you.
Whew, this was a hard post for me too!
Your new friend,
Rosemary