Hi Joe,
he already had 2 rounds of the cispatin/gemzar...no reactions... hopefully we will be that lucky with the next batch...I don't know about the 4th drug, but from what I have read so far tonight the CMV seems to have fairly good results. The Doctor sounded optimistic (for the first time actually) and asked us to trust his approach. He really made us feel confident, and that is very important. I just want his assistant to keep her mouth shut!!!She really is "Miss Gloom & Doom", never smiles, and has a monotone voice. I mean it, I wasn't depressed until she started talking yesterday...I am so glad I waited to hear the Dr. I feel more possitive tonight, The last time we had a real sit down with him, he was just talking about "a little more time", today we were actually hearing hope in his voice. He said "Lets Kill that cancer in the bone", then we will talk about surgery. Wow, I thought that option was off the table...He said that when he starts a patient off on the Cisplatin/Gemzar...when they have metatstatic bladder cancer, he doesn't know how they are going to do. He said to my husband. "How is the pain in your legs"? Answer: "gone" "How is the pain in your pelvis and back"? Answer: "gone" "How is the pain in your abdomen"? Answer: "gone" The only pain he has right now is in his shoulder. The doctor said that means the chemo is working, now lets go get it.... For now I am optimistic...I am realistic too, but we so needed some good news....
Thanks Everybody!,
Karen