Husband has stage IV cancer

16 years 5 months ago #8589 by susans
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Paula-
I'm also so sorry and grieved for you. It is difficult to even imagine what you're going through and yet I know it so, so hard to deal with, each day. Like you said, you wake up and then realize the reality of it all over again. Know that you are in my prayers every day.

~Susan

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16 years 6 months ago #8416 by bens_paula
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Wendy, I would be honored to have Bens story told. I am still in disbelief over this whole thing! I still have my sister here with me, keeping me strong, its when she leaves in 2 weeks that I know I will totally fall apart again, and I will be reaching out to you wonderful folks on here.
This all happened so fast, my head is still reeling from it. I wake up each day looking for my honey bunny, then it hits me and my day goes on from there. I am just going thru the motions right now, dealing the best I can. But I have the support of my family and good friends and me and my daughters will get thru this, someday.
Thanks to everyone for their words of comfort, it helps to read it, it really does!
love,
Paula

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16 years 6 months ago #8414 by emom
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Paula, I am so sorry for your loss! It has taken me a while to even be able to respond. It affects many of us, even though we didn't personally know him. I have no words to ease your loss and I know that the hole will loom large forever. But I hope you find a little bit of comfort in the words of St. Francis

“Do not fear what may happen tomorrow. The same loving Father who cares for you today will care for you tomorrow and everyday. Either He will shield you from suffering or He will give you unfailing strength to bear it. Be at peace then, and put aside all anxious thoughts and imaginings.” St. Francis De Sales

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16 years 6 months ago #8407 by cathy
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Paula, I am so sorry to hear ben has lost his battle with cancer, I am thinking of you & your family at this very difficult time,
Cathy.

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16 years 6 months ago #8395 by Mike
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Paula I am so sorry for your lost what can I say when God takes your other half from you, and that is your best friend your husband. In My Prayers, Joe

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16 years 6 months ago #8391 by wendy
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I'm sorry Paula, and so shocked about the way things went.

I would like to have Ben's story in our memorial section if that is something you would care to do.

My best to you,
Wendy

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