Hello harleygirl... I am so sorry you are having such a difficult time and there really are no words to make it better. The loss of a parent is just something that we know will happen one day but we're never ready for that day to actually arrive. I am even more sorry that it was this horrible disease that took him away from you. Hopefully you can unburden your heart just a little by leaving a bit of your grief on our doorstep. Please come back anytime...
Best wishes... Catherine
TURBT 1/21/10 at age 55
Dx: T2aN0M0 Primary Bladder Adenocarcinoma
Partial Cystectomy 2/25/10
Vanderbilt Medical Center
Nashville, TN