I join many others here in sending my condolences to you and your family. Also like others, I've been following your posts since the beginning, and remember your happiness that your father was well enough to be with you to celebrate your wedding. I'm sure you must feel sorrow that your dad will not still be with you in body at the time of the birth of your child, but he will be with you in spirit. My dad passed away (of lung cancer) on the same day as my brother's son was born, which is also my birthday, a maternal uncle's birthday, and the day my maternal grandfather passed away (which was on my 21st birthday).
It's so very thoughtful that your family has requested donations here, and I'm sure whatever is given will be put to excellent use.
Ann
Small TA Grade 1, May-06; recur (2 tiny), same, June-08; TURBTs both times. BCG begun July-08, dosage to 1/3rd May-10, completed treatment December-11. All clear since 2008.