Thanks to all of your suggestions, my husband consulted an oncologist who specializes in bladder and prostate cancers at Duke Medical Center. This doctor was quite caring and so we are beginning chemo on Wednesday. I say 'we' because after 47 years together, we have become a unit.
The chemo will consist of four cycles, each cycle being cisplatin and gemcitabine on day 1, gemcitabine on day 8, then the week of rest. We came home with four different prescriptions to counter the side effects, one to be taken prior to the dose.
As it turns out, it is only a three-hour drive to Durham, North Carolina, from our home, so we can probably do everything in just a day without the need for an overnight.
Now I would like to know what he can expect from the chemo, and if there anyone has any suggestions about coping with it. Thanks so much.
Judy