Holly, Clara and Cynthia,
I really think the combined effort of all, invasive and the mets section, from patient to caregiver , we all continuously support all surviviors..
For some the situations may get a little to close to home, some are more likely to dwell on what is to come. My humor and my positive thinking gets me and my husband through what our situation is at the present. If we are given any news medically that is disturbing I feel I could share that. Susans situation was a prime example. She shared, for us it was like reading a story, she was an accomplished writer and composer so she had one up on us in that area. I think what she did on her post is a good idea, read only if you are able to handle the subject..beware the news is not good,, kinda thing. Never be afraid, to SHARE, maybe a red flag is appropriate,,those who are fearful can stay away, therefore not to frighten them. Zach is another example, as he said , he doesn't mix words with adults on these issues..its in the hands of the reader, they are in charge of their emotional being.
Clara, I know how you are feeling, we had to cancel all of 2007 and part of 2008. Plus I am still aprehensive when trips come to mind, panic maybe. Like I will be in charge,,responsibility of what could happen while gone. I am sure its left over emotions,,have to let go of it all.
Thats my thoughts on the matter, and Holly I will pray things lighten up for you, you have a good time with your son while he is with you, and treatment is successful.. Ginger Beane