Well you are very informed so far. I have not heard of radiation after surgery while in surgery, thats a new one for me.. our experience was at the Cleveland Clinic, also with the bag for my husband, he did have a heart attack one year prior to surgery with 4 stents, it was a emergency situation as his main artery was 99 per cent blocked and he went code blue in the ER. He made it thru his R/C without a problem heart wise, but make sure he always takes his heart meds after surgery on time. I too would be happier if the surgeon has done many of these rather than 5 a year..The Cleveland Clinic is outstanding in this area, However, keeping a vigil is a wonderful idea, no matter how good the hospital you can always run into some staff that just don't cut it. Two eyes are better than one , 4 better than 2, etc.
And my husband hears some but not all things, being on meds, he hears less than that, so good for you, stay by his side. Days in the hospital, that can vary, we were 6 days, some have been up to 24 days because of circumstances, but if all goes well I would count on 5-6 days. Ask questions, after surgery he will be very dry, a wet wash cloth does wonders, second day walking, 3rd day food, maybe,nausea can be a problem, be ready for it as the anesthesia makes a problem in the intestinal tract. The nausea and the bowel issues really were the biggest problems for my husband, he by the way has the outside bag, works like a charm you just need good stoma nurses to help him find the right one to fit his body type, Hollister is what we are using. The stoma nurses should visit at least twice a week until he is able to change it comfortably himself, not to worry they don't send you home with no guidance, at least they shouldn't...My husbands surgery is listed back on Sept.16th 2007,in Invasive section day to day, it could help to read it..I am here and so is my husband if your dad would like to speak to him. The Cleveland Clinic has asked my husband to talk to some who are afraid and are uncomfortable with there situation, so we talk to them when there is a need,,, My husband was 67 at the time of surgery and is back to working and traveling, golfing, so recovery done right will get you your life back , as I pray it will for your dad..lovingly, Ginger and Gene Beane