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16 years 2 hours ago #14919 by cheryls
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Iam so very sorry! I relize there are no words that will take away the pain you are going through! Just know you are in my prayers and I hope that your mother is at peace! She is surrounded by her loved one which must help tremendously! Love Cheryl

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16 years 4 hours ago #14916 by Julie
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I'm sorry your Mother's liver failed and that she is lingering on. Please trust that when she is ready she will let go. When my Father was dying my sister and Mother all told him it was OK for hims to leave us. We assumed he could hear and understand even when unconscious.

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16 years 5 hours ago #14912 by julieann
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I am so sorry to hear this. I can somewhat understand where you are. I am not there yet, but my mother is also sick with BC. Right now she is doing well, but we know that won't last forever. I wish there was something I could say to make it better, but of course I can't. I too hope that when the time comes, Mama won't linger. She wouldn't want that. I hope and pray that your mom is in little pain and will go quickly and peacefully. Try and hang in there. I know it is heartbreaking. You and your family will be in my prayers.

PS- I tried to find your moms story. I could only find one post. I wondered about her journey.

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16 years 5 hours ago #14911 by mssmr
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Dear Jane -- I am another one who would urge consideration of involving hospice.
In my experience (in the end stage of relatives and close friends) they do a good job of controlling pain in the end stage and can be empathic support, as well. My heart goes out to you and your family and I, too, will keep you in my prayers. Susan (mssmr)

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16 years 10 hours ago #14906 by Patricia
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Jane so sorry to hear about your Mother. I hope you will call Hospice if you haven't already as they can make sure she is not in any unbearable pain. My heart goes out to you and your family...Pat

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16 years 10 hours ago #14903 by fearandfight
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I am very sorry to hear about you Mom Jane I know this is a difficult time. No one wants to lose one of their parents nor do we wish to watch them suffer. I will keep your Mom in my prayers and pray your whole family finds peace. Joe

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