Bob,
I asked a similar question with some more detailed questions along with it a couple of years ago when I had a recurrence which meant I would need a cystectomy.
Here is a link to that question and you can read the responses of everyone who replied at that time.
To neo or not to neo, that is my question
As for me, I do not regret getting a neobladder. Personally, I've had some complications but it would not change my decision.
Mike