Hi Darlene, your husband sounds like he is on the same track as my father, except my dad had the neobladder (which I am now cursing). My dad also has the swollen scrotum (his surgery was 4 weeks ago) and this hurts him more than anything else. He was readmitted last Saturday with a blood and urine infection, and is just being released to the general wards from the CCU probably today, to continue his antibiotic treatments. While he feels and looks much better, the swelling is agony for him. He is using ice packs quite frequently on the area and that provides some relief, but he is very uncomfortable. We too have been having a hard time getting information about this and why it occurs, and why it is lasting so long. I do know that some of the men on this forum have said that they had tremendous swelling as well, while others did not.
I too will be interested in the answers that you get to this question! andrea