Hi Jeffry,
It seems to me that this isn't an overly-long wait. The guidelines are beginning to recommend that people not let more than 90, and ideally 45 days or less go by before getting surgery for invasive bladder cancer. I know folks who have been forced to wait up to 3 months and it's tough! I had to wait 10 weeks for surgery after my breast cancer dx. Ugh.
Take care,
Wendy