Wow! So sorry to hear. When does he get out of the hospital? If he had the ileal conduit surgery 2 days ago and stroke last night, it would seem like it would be a while. How severe was the stroke?
Why wouldn't the doctors tell you things to make his life at home more comfortable? Mainly, I would think it all depends on the severity of the stroke.
Sorry I can't be more helpful but there's not a whole lot to go on here.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...