Wow... like I said, I thought it was a lot different... so glad you are happy with it and can share your story with all the newbies!
I have a big scar that runs from just below my navel to the suprapubic bone, and a couple of little round scars on the sides from the JP drain and the stents. The first year after surgery, I didn't want anyone to see that scars. By the second year, I decided that I really didn't care anymore.
On the hospital concern, I had a fall from my horse last year and was knocked out for a bit. Luckily, my husband was with me and was able to explain the whole catheter thing in the ER. It's pretty essential because one of the first things that happens when you go into shock is that your urinary system tries to get rid of everything possible. So, I got a new Medical ID bracelet. After thinking about it, 90% of regular medical people will not have a clue what a Studer pouch is or what to do about it. They need to hear it in "layman's terms" with specific instructions. The new bracelet says, "Bladder Cancer, must cath to void, ICE XXX-XXX-XXXX" (my husband's cell #). Something to think about...
I am chuckling thinking about having you on the ambulance, unconscious, when your belly sends up a geyser... it would be really funny if nobody knew about the stoma! I can just hear the conversation between the medics in the back...
I got mine here:
n-styleid.com/ and was VERY impressed with the quality, price, shipping time, size flexibility and the styles offered. I'd highly recommend them...
Christine