Hox - I am glad you have done your homework and are happy with your doctor. It must be a relief to you to know that you are in good hands. Pat's intentions were not to scare you or Mary. She is asking because she cares as we all do.
Radical Cystectomy is one of the top 4 invasive surgeries I was told that at UCLA. It affects the intestinal as well as the urinary system. You want the best.
I realize that surgery is just 3 days away, but for peace of mind you might want to ask just how many Radical Cystectomys your doctor has done. A good doctor is proud of his track record and knows how comforting it will be to you to have your questions answered.
Wishing you both a successful surgery and please remember to walk, walk, walk and chew that gum.
Webs
P.S. I was in the hospital for 12 days due to complications and lost 28 lbs. Unfortunately they came back.
sneaky little buggers.
Do to some complications I was out of commission for a couple of months.