Hi Mike,
I can relate too well with facing possible metastatis...my rc was 3/07 and we found a bone met in 12/07. While bone mets are considered distant mets, I do believe local lymph nodes are consider local recurrance, which they consider to still be curable.
Personally, I would want the nodes out...there is info leading me to believe the more nodes out at rc helps significantly reduce micromets. And somewhere I have read where 2nd and even a 3rd lymphanectomy was valuable. I would have to have a good reason myself to accept letting them stay in me.BTW, they took 35 of mine I think at rc, and all were negative.
How is the dr so sure those nodes would likely be benign? If I am not mistaken, I think Wendy R had a clavicle node turn up positive shortly afte her rc. I will ask her to be sure. Again, I don't feel this disease is predictable enough for me to be confident in how it behaves in regaurds to metastatic levels.
God Bless, Holly
PS I didn't wake up at a Holiday Inn this morning lol