Alan,
I have had my new pouch since late July. In the beginning I felt like it was such a nuisance, having to empty every 2 hours and having to irrigate so often, but as the weeks went on, things improved. Training the new bladder requires time and much patience. Everyone is different. Since Pat is a senior pouch owner, I tended to listen to her, yet found I differed in some areas. After four months I find that I can sleep up to 5 and 6 hrs at night, but during the day, I still can't seem to get past 3 hours. I am still trying out different catheters to ensure I have what works the very best for me. Cleaning and caring for them seemed like a hassle in the beginning but now I have it down to a routine. My insurance gives me 10 a month which I have to re-use. I haven't gotten the visit to the bathroom down to 5 minutes but maybe one day. Keep asking questions so you know how best to be prepared. It is a new norm but we adjust rather easily. Take care, Melodie