I would try a different urologists office or call and explain that you really need to be seen sooner. If they can't do that, ask to be put on a cancellation list. A month is a very long time to wait with symptoms going on. When I called my current urologist and explained my symptoms, they literally had me in the very next day. Good luck.
I have had reoccurring UTI symptoms since July .. no blood just very frequent urination and mild burning ... the last week I have been peeing every half hour and 3 times during the night ... I’m 45 yr old female and can’t get in to see a urologist for another month ..