Newbie to forum.

Hair
Or Lack of Hair
Or loss of Hair
Your loved ones (grandchildren) will still love and Cherish you ...... no matter What!
They just want you around.

I have a father in law who has the had the majorest comeover ont the planet. He has kept it going for over 52 years!
After so many years of talking behind his back about this vain attempt to look like he has a full head of hair, my youngest daughter said, "Papa why dont you just cut off your hair. It looks like so much work !"

He did! And now he seems so happy to have that weight off his shoulders.

You will be loved Even without hair



George

I have no grandchildren or children so I don't have anything to offer except to say good luck. That must have been a shocker when your doctor told you that.

Angler,

Hair is a funny thing. After retiring I grew a full beard and got shaggy. My grandkids only knew me that way until I was diagnosed. I took a preemptive approach and shaved all facial hair (except for eyebrows). I was not going to go through the patchy- hair stage. I began collecting hats. My grandkids always wonder what strangce had Gramps will be wearing next - the hair has been forgotten - it never really mattered.

Kids need to know you have medical issues "Grandpa is sick" and some things may change a bit - but they don't need to worry about adult things. I try to keep things as close to 'normal' as possible. Nothing interfers with the 2 way enjoyment of being with my grandkids.

You might have to plan activities a bit differently, or adjust timing, but with a bit of adjustment you and the grandkids will continue to have a good time. Fortunately, kids accept us for who we are, not for the beauty of our tresses.

Best
Jack

Diagnosed October 21st after urologist received pathology report. To cauterised to grade. Month later, another scope and congratulations, you are the youngest patient my doctor diagnosed with aggressive muscle invasive bladder cancer. As I'm sure as everyone else on this forum, I was devastated. How can this be, I just turned 50. After this, I wanted a 2nd opinion. Got appointment at The James Center, started the process over again, and same outcome. Next step, ct scan and density test, then chemo. Got to tell you, I'm reading trying to prepare myself for the future, and I'm very nervous. Need to figure out how to tell my grandson and explain why his papaw will be losing his hair. That's the pain I'm dreading the most. Since I'm new to this site, my question may have been answered already, how do I explain this to him?
Thx