PDD,
Sorry you have to be here but, glad you found us. While none of us are doctors, you certainly are facing a double whammy. I would suspect your two cancers are related. With two sites you definetely want a team approach. Preferably a large teaching hospital or a group that deals only with these cancers. Meaning a Sloan Kettering, Cleveland Clinic, John Hopkins, MD Anderson etc.
What area of the country do you live? Someone that reads this should be able to help.