I don't know where to begin. I'm not even sure if I should be posting to the New Users Info or the invasive bladder cancer forum. All I know is I desperately need support so I'll do my best to introduce myself. Eli is my soul mate, my best friend. We're together 43 years. We're located in Western New York near Buffalo, near Roswell Park Cancer Institute.
Eli is 75 years old and has been very healthy, in good physical condition and taking no medications.
January 31, Eli had a cystoscopy with the preoperative diagnosis of acute urinary retention secondary to BPH.
Postoperative diagnosis is the same with benign prostatic hypertrophy with lateral lobe obstruction and a bladder tumor. On Feb 21 he was operated on for a transurethral resection of the prostate and the bladder lesion was removed and biopsied.
The pathology diagnosis of the urniary baldder is invasive high-grade urothelial carcinoma. The prostate gland is consistent with benign prostatic hypertrophy.
Eli had a CT scan on Mar 16. There was no lymphadenopathy or masses seen in the pelvis. Liver, kidneys, spleen, adrenals, pancreas appear normal.
Moderate retroperitoneal lymphadenopathy. (I have no idea as to what the retroperitoneal lymphdenopathy means). Eli did pick up a staph infection post op and responded to antibiotic treatment. They did another urine culture March 16 and it was negative. I don't know if that could cause the enlarged lymph nodes.
The CT impression was significant irregular diffuse thickening of the bladder wall, suspicious for carcinoma. Significant enlarged prostate. This was already confirmed by the biopsy diagnosis: invasive, high grade TCC, benign prostate.
Roswell Park is located in Buffalo. Last week I scheduled an appointment with one of their urologists for this Friday.
I'm trying to be upbeat for Eli. Meanwhile, I can't eat or sleep. A couple of weeks ago I presented to the ER with an acute panic attack. I've read though so many of the archived posts but I'm unable to understand how anyone can cope with this. It will get worse, I know, but we'll know more after our visit to Roswell Park.
Thank you for this website.
Marjorie