Dana,
Yes, it is tough on everybody.
Blood in the urine after the TURBT is common. They did cutting and he had a bunch.
Blood in the urine for no apparent reason, is one of the reasons to see a urologist because it is one of the symptoms of bladder cancer (sometimes). Although, heavy lifting and strenuous exercise can also cause temporary bleeding.
Fatigue can certainly be a symptom of worrying. Who the heck could blame him for some amount of worrying???? We all advise against worrying but it is just human nature in situations like this.
None of your questions have been silly at all. All questions (related to bladder cancer of course) are welcome and nothing is too personal.
Mike
Age 54
10/31/06 dx CIS (TisG3) non-invasive (at 47)
9/19/08 TURB/TUIP dx Invasive T2G3
10/8/08 RC neobladder(at 49)
2/15/13 T4G3N3M1 distant metastases(at 53)
9/2013 finished chemo -cancer free again
1/2014 ct scan results....distant mets
2/2014 ct result...spread to liver, kidneys, and lymph...