Hello Alanlee!
As you read, learn about some of the cancers pertaining to bladder cancer. Some are very manageable and the check ups are worse than the cure, really! As your reading take notes on each type of BC so when you go to the doc for the results you can have a little more focus on what lies ahead. Until you get the results back, don’t read the worst case stuff, it’ll just add to the stress. Cancer is no fun and all of are to help and answer questions, so stop stressing. Seems like when you talk to doctors and nurses, all you hear is “blah blah blah cancer blah blah cancer…..
Be sure to drink plenty of liquids, helps with the healing. If you have to have another catheter, be sure to get some KY as Mike suggested or a high quality water based gel with lidocaine from the doctor. Don’t get the cheaper stuff, it dries and leaves little bits on the cath that turn into daggers of death. If sitting is troublesome, maybe a big pillow, hemorrhoid ring, or a Boppy.
Everyone here has more than enough information to share. So ask away!
Bill