Margellen
Sorry to welcome you to this site. We are here for you. Just a few things to help stop the shakes..... You are NOT going to die anytime soon. Probably NOT from bladder cancer. You ARE going to get through this. Your life WILL change. Sometimes even for the better.
As ALL of the great people here have already said; This is a journery and you have already started to look out for yourself. You have found the BEST Dr. and hospital for b.c. You have taken charge of your own life and THAT is a HUGE step. You have to be an advocate for yourself.
We are here for you and we are a great group to bounce ideas off of. Please feel free to ask questions, rant, cry, and look for a shoulder to lean on. If you have a caregiver that has questions, they can come here too. Basically, we are your one stop bc center.
We also have a Very Weird sense of humor about this. NOTHING is sacred and NO question is out of bounds.
Sincerely and with care
George