Hello Swag!
I am just at 8 weeks post op for RC and doing more and more. If you’re not to sure about work, talk to your doctor and let their experience guide you. I was given some pretty light weight restrictions for the first 4 weeks. What was recommended was walking and stairs. After that I was to start doing more and use common sense, if it starts to hurt or not feel right, stop. My doc said 3 months for work; I run printing presses so there is a fair amount of lifting and physical activity. As of now, lifting about 35 pounds can really be felt in the mid section. Also, your new bladder will be more than happy to let you know you’ve gone too far! Day pads only hold so much.
The biggest obstacles for me so far have been nutrition and energy. Getting the new bladder on a night time schedule will be rough just from the lack of sleep, and the tummy getting back up to speed with regular bowel movements throws the appetite all over the place. Expect to loose weight, I have lost about 30lbs. Just about everyone I have talked to has been able to go back to what they were doing just fine, some faster than others.
Good luck with the surgery and recovery and keep everyone here updated.
Bill