Julie - This is Melodie - have called your house last couple of days to find out how you were doing - didn't think to check here - dah ! Anyway, when I had my RC, I wasn't able to hold anything down and nothing worked for me, then I asked for some Ativan...my hospital apparently didn't usually give Ativan, but when I asked for it, they did give it to me. I guess some feel it is addictive but I never had any problem with it. I took it prior to surgery when I was doing chemo and found it worked better for me than anything else....I was 6 or 7 days post op by the time I finally got the Ativan and went home on day 10.
Hope your family got the message I left on Saturday - suggesting they go out and find you some "cute" and "soft, comfy" men's boxer shorts to wear for the trip home. When I was discharged from the hospital I had tubes and a Foley catheter connected to me and could not wear any panties so I left the hospital with no underwear on. Another Indy pouch friend, Robin, here in Seattle suggested men's boxers and I think it's a great idea.
You continued to remain in my prayers. I hope things soon turn around for you and you will on your way home...with pillow on tummy. Hugs,