If you work right near major bladder cancer center, I would recommend getting the TURB done there. Even if your local uro has treated a lot of bladder cancer patients, it still is a delicate surgery. The major center will also have more experienced pathologists who evaluate the staging/grading.
Yes, treatment depends on the stage and grade. I posted a flow chart the typical path of treatment.
Go to this page:
tinyurl.com/2dlt7w9
and then click on the link "Map of the Journey". Some folks have found it helpful to print this out and use it as a tool to talk about their treatment plan with their doctor.
Good luck. Keep us posted here and feel free to ask any questions you may have. That's one reason we're here.
Glad that you found us. Explore the site and the forums. There is tons of good information already here but don't be afraid to ask anything.
Mike