Tom,
I know that we are really cool and all here, but you don't even know if you allowed in the club yet.
Hopefully, you won't be because it won't even be cancer.
However, it is good to know who the best doctors are so it is certainly a good question. As Cynthia already said, we kind of need to know where you live to point you to best docs in your area. If it doesn't matter to you where the docs are, we can give some of the top in the country. US News and World Report does annual rankings.
Best Urology Hospital
There are different docs for different things so let's wait and see what you have first.
Again, bladder cancer is very treatable so even if it is bladder cancer, chances are something can be done about it.
Why didn't you pass your preop?
Oh yeah, I remember when you started posting, you mentioned that your PSA had shot up. Don't forget to keep following up on that! Prostate cancer is nasty business so don't let that slide. Hopefully, you have neither.
Keep in mind: Worrying is not going to change the outcome of the biopsy result. If it is not cancer or if it is low grade non-invasive all that worrying will have been wasted. If it is cancer, then you wasted some days of your life worrying about it rather than living life.
I know....easy to say but tougher to do. Just give it a try.
Other than giving all your stuff and money away, just think about all the stuff you want to do before your final departure. Start doing the stuff. This is a no lose situation because if it's not cancer, you still are going to pass away at some point in the future, just like everybody else. Everyone is born terminal and no matter what they say about vampires, nobody really lives forever.
If you die in 5, 10, 25, or 50 years from now, you still might as well start thinking about the things you want to do and the people you want to make up with or apologize to or hug or the things you want to stop doing. No time like the present. Could be you don't even have cancer and meteor lands on you while your driving to golf course. You never know for sure how your ticket will get punched or when so live life now.
By the way LOTS of bladder tumors are benign.
Hope whatever caused you to fail your preop physical gets taken care of so you can get the TURBT done and get some answers.
We like you and all, but we are just as happy if you can't pass the admission test to this club!
Mike