I had my second opinion and I don't have bladder cancer, I have intersistial cystitis. This can cause the micro hematuria, and severe pelvic pain caused by spasms of the bladder and muscles in your pelvic region. The rash was actually an ulcer caused by the IC. I had an instillation of siver nitrate that I will have weekly for 6 weeks to try to rebuild the lining of my bladder. This caused more pain, but if it works I will be a happy camper.
Hugs and prayers to you all, and thank you so very much for your input.