Dear Pat. I know we cannot possibly fill the void. ( I wouldn't begin to know how) I don't know if words can express the need for a strong copilot through cancer. Your words were like a rifle shot through me. I have always had a take charge attitude because my wife will pick me up every time I get thrown down. I don't know how I could do it without her support.
My wish for you is SUPPORT. Yes, from us, but also from someone right there with you! Someone who will agree with you when you need it; and someone who will kick you in the proverbial ass when necessary. Please be on the lookout for this true friend.
While we would like to fulfill this role, you need a true flesh and blood shoulder to lean on. My New Year Wish is for you to find this friend.
Until then, we need you to pour yourself out when you feel you need it.. We will listen.
With love
George