Hello Shell,
Sorry you have to join our party. Sounds like so far your low grade which is a good thing. I hope that it stays that way. I am female and 38 when I was diagnosed with Invasive bladder cancer. Talk about throwing the doctors for a loop. Not quite as young as you but still pretty young. I have since found out there are a lot of us "young ones" out there. I personally feel since they do not do enough research on this disease that there are are more of us than they know.
They didn't even begin to suspect bladder cancer with me. I am the one that had to demand to see a urologist. Keep asking questions, demand answers, seek second opinions, and know that we are here for you.
Webs