hey you nice people -- i'm a 55yr old woman -lives in seattle - married- 2 teenage son's - and just yesterday i found out i have a bladder mass that is 9cm by 3cm -- made a appt.w/ a urologist for tues. - to be honest i'm freaking out and going in 200 directions at once - should i go ahead and make s second opinion appt. now ? slow down and try to breathe ?? or what ?? thank you for your help
