I can relate to "Swearing off Google Searches". Much of what I found in cyber space was very outdated, and many of the studies and statistics were tainted because they included a mixture of folks who did and didn't follow the gold-standard of treatment and had or didn't have regular scopes.
With regards to urgency after a TURBT - I know I had to go more frequently than usual, but I don't remember that lasting for more than a few days. I do have an issue with capacity/urgency when I'm having my BCG treatments, but it only lasts for a few days, at most. Everybody seems to react differently to the TURBTs and the treatments. Each person's experience is unique, but we all seem to have some common side effects.
I found that reading helped me keep my mind occupied while I waited for my pathology. A good racy novel might help keep your mind off occupied
Hang in there.
LillianG