Red, You may want to ask your doctor/surgeon about about a perscription for physical therapy for pelvic floor muscles. I went for 14 weeks. It really helped alot. It helped build confidence.
As far as the exercises, I would do them twice a day while in therapy, and about 3 months after. I only do them (roll ins/outs) once a day now.
Roll in\'s: (ball) squeeze in, count to 10, relax 5. 10 times
Roll outs: (band) pull out, count to 10, relax 5. 10 times
Kegels: hold for 10, relax 5. 10 times
Bridges: thrust up, hold for 10, 30 times